For those who've stopped obsessing?

Hi all! This month I'm not going to obsess over bbt, was just going to take it the week I expect to ovulate so I can see the shift. I know from past charts what my pre & post o temps are so will be able to tell ok I think. Was also going to do opks. But I'm so tempted to go for the not charting anything, no bbt or opks at all then I can't obsess over dpo in the TWW!!! But then I have this niggling feeling of what if I don't ovulate! I've never not ovulated (when TTC anyway - suppose it could have randomly happened when I wasn't charting etc) & I get ewcm. Did any of you have this thought? How do you ignore it? I'm not sure if I will stress over this which then defies the point of not charting!!! Ahhhh! X