Hormone rant

Okay. So my hubby and I have been talking about the leave I have for after the baby. I want to take the whole 12 weeks that I'm allowed by FMLA. I know that it won't be paid but I feel like I want that time for me and baby especially knowing I have to go back to work after. He on the other hand wants to know if I could go back sooner than 6 weeks. He is just making me so annoyed by not even hearing what I'm saying or about how I'm feeling. We aren't hurting for money, we planned for this its just really frustrating. Okay sorry. Thanks for listening. I just don't know how to put my feeling I prowess with him about this yet and I need to get it off my chest