Sigh.. dads just don’t get it..

I usually brag about my husband... but he really sucked today. I went to visit my family for 4 days with the baby (our only child). My husband stayed home. I came home today to find the house exactly the way I left it.. couldn’t even pick up the diaper that was left on the living room floor. I was SO upset. I was looking forward to spending time with my husband after 3 nights away.. and I thought for sure he would have surprised me with a clean house (or have at least vacuumed like I had asked before I left..)but nope. Nothing. Instead he golfed, played video games, and did a puzzle. I was so upset I started crying. Ugh.. why dont dads get it?