Hemorrhoids!?

Ciara
Tmi I know. But I am 35 weeks tomorrow & I have what I'm guessing is a hemorrhoid (a large bump by my butt that is extremely sore!) it hurts to move. Sitting standing laying down bending down walking it hurts! I was in tears this morning & missed work because of it. I go to the dr tomorrow but what are some ways that are safe to help soothe it??