Irrationally upset

So my husband and I experience a miscarriage earlier this month. My doc gave us the ok to start trying as soon as we felt ready. So we agreed we would try again this month. We have been BD'ing every other day for the past week with the promise we would go to every day once I got my positive opk. Well last night I got my positive opk but did we BD?! No we fought all night because he didn't want to do it because he would rather sit and stew about a small leak in our bathroom that can easily be fixed. So when I got upset that he broke his promise to BD everyday he tell me I am irrational and that I am being obsessed. He also basically tells me I should be over us losing the baby and moved on by now. He says we can still BD tonight and I told him it would probably be too late tonight but maybe we could do it this morning then we might still catch it. He then proceeded to tell me how manipulative I am being. I just don't what to do, I'm upset and I will be devastated if I have my period this month because it will be like I am miscarrying all over again and I also feel like now I will blame him if we don't get pregnant. I know that's insane but idk how to stop feeling like this.