God doesn't always give us babies 💖

I've had so many women say "oh God is going to bless you REAL SOON" or "You just gotta have faith" or even "I know my God is a God of miracles". Yes, yes, yes. He is a God of miracles, he is gonna bless me soon, and yes I have to faith. He is a God of miracles BUT babies are not always "miracles", sometimes miracles are a new job, a big break on bills, or finishing my degree. Yes, God is going to bless me soon, He's going to pour joy, comfort, an abundance of love into my life, or even help me with other struggles I may have. He's a good God regardless of who gets a baby or not. Lastly, I have to have faith, because it's in my nature to believe he is amazing and has my best Interest at heart. I know He does. BUT what if for once, a child is not someone's big blessing, what if it's not someone answered prayer, what if for once in this lifetime it's not someone's "God-given right". What if it's not meant to happen? So many times it's easy to say any number of things (not just the ones I posted) to encourage someone when you yourself have already had your baby (and are just "ttc for baby #2 or #3 or #6"), you got pregnant after "only 6 months of trying", or when you may be feeling so optimistic yourself, BUT I would love if people understood that those words you may think are encouraging are actually pretty annoying and possibly making someone feel worse about their situation. Not everyone gets that "happy ending". I just wanted to vent, thank you to everyone who read this till the end 🙏🏼