Bf doesn’t want to step up ?

I’ve been dating this guy for over 2 years. We’ve been thru a lot he’s been homeless job to job etc. These past two years he hasn’t tried hard to get his life together . He’s 26, I’m 21. He doesn’t have a car and we live together. Our lease is up in two months but I need him to get another job in sept so we can have more financially available when we apply n it’ll look better on our application if he had two jobs (he’s not making as much as me right now) he hasn’t made any move to do so. He works at 8 to 2 n that’s it . I get off at 6:30 sometimes 9:30. He has plenty time to work another job during the day . We just lost a baby last month I had a missed miscarriage. I personally believe it was because I was working too hard full time and standing shifts. I told him I do want to try again BUT I want him to get another job cuz I’d want to cut down my hours so I can relax grow the baby n have a healthy pregnancy. Every time I tell him this he says he’s turning celibate (cuz I say he can’t cum in me) . He’s not stepping up for us to be able to move forward In life and I hate acting like a fucking mom n being on his ass about getting another job so we can live better. Idk what to do guys. I love this man to death but he isn’t smart or motivated financially. That’s his only downfall. I’ve even had to make savings plans for him .

I asked him yesterday also is he ok with being just mediocre in life or does he want to live well and have more than he ever wanted n he said he’s ok with living mediocre.... which I 100% AM NOT. I said I guess we aren’t on the same page then . I’m giving him these next few months to pull his shit together or I’m finding a place of my own . I don’t understand how u can be a grown ass healthy man n only be doing bare minimum . I guess I’m makin’ it too easy on him .