Have you ever lost the “spark” in your long term relationship?

My ex boyfriend and I have been together for three years. We recently called things off because we don’t have the same connection we used to, but we talked today and we’re both willing to try because we still love each other so much. I can see how we’ve lost it. We’ve just fallen into the routine of a stable relationship. We texted all day about pointless stuff, we only saw each other maybe once a week, and when we did, we’d just hang out at my house and not really do anything. I understand how it kind of faded away.

But we want to try to work things out if it’s possible. If you’ve been through this, or have any advice, can you leave a comment?