so my boyfriend is mad at me because i wont get on the top & ride him during sex . i have told him multiple times i do not like to do that & im not comfortable with it but hes so mad & making a huge deal about it, he wont even speak to me. what should i do?😕

update: hes still mad at me, if not even more & said that i always make him out to be a bad person. ugh. i just dont understand