GET OUT OF MY HOUSE.
I’m so annoyed. My car broke down and my mom had to pick me up, took me to get my son and brought us home & a tow truck took my car. So I gave her gas money for the ride, explained I had a lot of homework to do & the baby hadn’t napped, kind of hinting that I didn’t want her to stay long.
She spoils my baby SO BAD to the point where he’s so hard to deal with when she’s around. She undermines me every chance she gets and my son is getting only enough to know “mom says no but nana says yes” and then she bitches at me for punishing him. Of course I do it anyway, she won’t control how I parent. But since she’s here, he won’t listen to me. He’s never this misbehaved until she shows up. So I can’t even leave him with her and do school work because she’ll let him play with whatever he wants, even if he could get hurt (i.e the front door, the toilet water, oven door, etc.).
BUT SHE WONT FUCKING LEAVE. like she’s been here for an hour and a half now & I need her to get tf away from me. I’m so annoyed. So I’m just running around trying to get bubba to listen to me, he won’t eat while she’s here either. Because she doesn’t make him sit in his high chair.
It’s all a mess and I just needed to rant.
Achieve your health goals from period to parenting.