Sore / red vagina

when I open the lips up it's pretty red/ and feels tender .. I recently had to take diflican and it didn't help and now I'm using monistat.. I'm still pretty itchy so I'm unsure if it's a herpe our break now but I'm getting pretty frustrated.. and I just randomly started feeling bloated and uncomfortable into pelvic area so I'm not sure what to do at this point... all this seems to be reoccurring bacterial vaginosis, yeast infection plus the herpes out break. I'm ready to give up I'm so sick of having all these issues . I can't even have sex and it's been weeks I can't get into my gyno till next week