Should i or no?

So i am 3 days late, i am usually on time except for last month i was a day late. My question of should i or not is if i should take a test. We have been trying for 7 years now and i have had 1 ectopic and 4 miscarriages. Last month i took a test right away and then i started. My husband and i were so bummed. This time i asked him what he wanted to do, either take a test or wait and see if i start. He chose to wait but this anticipation is killing me and i want to know. So should i wait like my husband wants or should i take a test? Thank you in advance!

**Update**

So i havent taken a test yet, and i was going to get one tomorrow morning. But now i have very little light red/pink spotting. Which is still unusual for me because when i start it is full blown and never starts out light. So i think i am going to wait another day to see what happens. Thank you ladies so much for the support and i will keep you updated!

**Updated**

So unfortunately i did start and i am so frustrated and sad. I really want to have a baby and my husband and i have been trying for so long and i have had so many miscarriages. I dont know if i can look at my husband without crying. Even though he already knows that i started, i am just so frustrated and sad. Why does this have to keep happening!?!