Regret pregnancy? Help š
I want to know if anyone else felt this way too, or if itās just me. Iāve debated about even posting this for awhile so please no judgement until you read.
This baby was SO planned so I donāt know why I feel this way. Weāve been married for 2 years (together 4), we have a house, weāre doing great financially, weāre both happy. We were TTC for 2 years and on clomid for a few months, and we had some losses in that time.
Iām about 9/10 weeks and for the past few weeks, I just wish we didnāt get pregnant and that I wasnāt anymore. It makes no sense because this is ALL Iāve wanted. Iāve cried over infertility, been jealous of others who were pregnant, prayed to get pregnant. I donāt know why I feel this way, it makes me feel horrible.
My husband is so excited, and I broke down one night telling him everything and he was shocked. He said he wasnāt angry he just didnāt understand and I told him I donāt either. I havenāt told a lot of people about the pregnancy, but when they bring the pregnancy up Iāll change the subject because I just donāt want to talk about it.
Iāve debated about talking to a therapist or someone, because I donāt know if this is just hormones or what the problem is. Has anyone else felt this way? Is it normal? Iām just tired of feeling like this when I should be so excited. I donāt understand how I can go from having infertility issues wishing and hoping I could get and stay pregnant, to wishing I wasnāt pregnant now š
**thank you all for your responses, it makes me feel so much better that Iām not the only one who feels/felt this way š
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