Is there such thing as healthy arguments or healthy amount of fights?

Question

My SO and I agreed on a break due to excessive amount of fights and arguments and on top of that..his tendency to act single sometimes. 
Whenever you guys fight, how does it end? How should it end? 
Sometimes we cuss each other out or sometimes he will call me crazy or anything along those lines, sometimes we leave for hours and pretend nothing happened, sometimes we just drinks and smoke it away, but that never solves anything. I need real advice. 
*No I will not leave him, I need some input on you guys relationship since this is my very first and I wish to make it my last, we have been dating for a few years if it matters and are engaged*

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Our arguments usually dissolve after a couple of hours. We talk about our feelings and what is bothering us and come to a solution then move on. 
However what you’ve described is not healthy

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Marriage takes not only communication but commitment. Walking away or taking a break damages a marriage rather then makes it better. Same goes for a relationship. In order for them to be successful both parties need to work on resolving issues and realizing that things aren’t always perfect. You can still be together and mad at each other as long as the end goal is to work it out. Compromise is big to as well as realizing when one is wrong in a situation.

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We always discuss what we feel afterwards when both are calm and it is approached in a calm manner. My ptsd causes my anger to rise very quickly, so I always need abit of space to calm myself and get out of that headset, but he understands this and then we communicate about it. However, your method doesn't sound healthy at all or sustainable.

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Are you sure you should be getting married anytime soon if you have to take a break from each other? There’s no standard for the amount of fights that is healthy between a couple. We’re all human and we have our conflicts but it is definitely not a sign of a healthy relationship if you are fighting more than once a month with your significant other

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It’s not the amount of arguments it’s the type of arguing, because it’s just a form of communication. Often if someone doesn’t have strong communication skills they can become frustrated & angry their point isn’t being understood or heard, this can lead to unresolved issues, violence, lashing out at unrelated/smaller problems. 
If you really want to make things work then you should consider couples counseling to resolve current issues & gain skills in effective communication for the future. I think that any argument should have some result or closure at the end. I personally would rather stay up all night to work things out than leave things in a bad way. A hug & kiss, are we all good? at the end of a tough conversation is always the best result for me.

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Taking breaks ain’t the answer nor will it fix whatever y’all was arguing about 😔 trust me I tried that with my past relationships

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Gotta work on communication. 
But don’t be surprised if he doesn’t give you the choice whether to leave him or not- breaks typically end In break ups in the long run.

Is there such thing as healthy arguments or healthy amount of fights?

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