What do i do

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Im 27 weeks pregnant and my so started cheating on after our third year being together and once i got pregnant he changed n cheated and lied he also replaced me and cut me off. Im really hurt like so hurt and heartbroken it hurts my heart deeply. He left me to b a single mom and if i knew it would be like this i would have never brought her into this world without two parents he moved on and I cannot and im so miserable i onlycan think about him or want him. Now im depressed and I love my daughter to pieces and can’t wait to meet her but is it wrong to think i wont be good enough. I bought damn near everything and then sometimes i think shed b better off in a real family will this pass will i stop feeling like i regret my baby I love so much idk is this just a phase help me!!😫😞😢😢

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Everyone feels like they are not enough. Whether you have a partner or don’t. You are definitely grieving the loss of this relationship and that is okay. Can you get hooked in to Prenatal counseling services through your provider? Having a counselor or support group can be super helpful in general and especially now. 
I would not make any big decisions right now. Just breathe and take care of yourself and baby. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

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I had that same thing happen to me when I was only 13 weeks along with my 2nd child. I was really thinking about adoption for my son but knew I was already a single mom to a boy I could do it again! It will get a lot easier as time goes on. I wouldn’t change it for the world! The love you feel from your child will make everything easier! You will find the perfect person to help raise your daughter. I didn’t think I would but I did when my son was 8 months old. Keep your head up! Being an mom is an amazing thing! Don’t let him hold you back!!

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Your heart break wont last forever. But the choice of giving up your child is forever. I feel like your being selfish. I know its tough and hard. And its a horrible situation. But you will be okay. And once you are and you realized you gave up the child you love so much because of it.. you will regret it. Just my opinion. 
I dont think giving up your child is the absolute best choice for you.

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Trust me it’s going to be hard but the moment you have your daughter in your arms your going to forget about ALL the pain people as caused you, reason is because babies are beautiful and they really change lives. You will feel loved & always have the connection no mother can replace. No matter how hard things get, don’t give up for the sake of your daughter. I would just focus on her and count him out of your guys lives. You and your daughter will do SO much better without him involved. I hope everything goes well with you. Try your hardest to not stress out for the sake of your baby

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A friend from HS got pregnant and had her first son.  Her douche of a bf cheated over and over and left her...at 16 to be a single mom.  
 
She is now 31 and has two beautiful boys and is still a single mom and absolutely ROCKING IT.  She teaches them to be strong but better men and to respect women.
 
Another friend is also a kick @$$ single mom with a little boy and a little girl.  Her husband decided he didn’t want to be a Dad and left her when she was pregnant with her second child.  Her kids are the happiest little ones, I swear!!
 
You CAN do this, but do NOT be afraid to ask for help.

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No one but you can answer this question hun. Give it some time so you can heal a bit then think about your choices. I was 18 when I got pregnant with my first daughter and I was worried after her father and me split that it would be hard but i just dropped her off at college a couple weeks ago and can tell you i do not regret a second of my decision to be her mommy single and all :) You are stronger than you think but you need to decide based on  what's best for you both. Good luck hun in whatever you choose❤

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Wow you would actually consider giving your daughter away because ur bf cheated ? Happens to the best of us move on and be the best mum you can don’t just give ur daughter away because she has a bad dad that’s sick as anything

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