I hate my MIL 😒
Ever since my MIL smoked in my baby’s face, I refused for her to see him anymore. Then, for my partner, I decided to make amends with her, and move on.
Come my partners birthday, and our anniversary, I had a surprise birthday planned for him with some of his mates, me and our son. On the day of his birthday, his Mum and Dad decided to just pick him up and take him out all day. They never asked me if I had plans for him or if I wanted to join them! So again, I wanted nothing to do with this woman.
Last week, my fiancé came up with a deal - we’d give her the choice to come and sort shit out, or leave it at what it was. And if she decided to leave it (which she did), then she would never see our son until she stopped with all the shit (spreading rumours about us and whatnot).
Now this week, she approached my parents, telling THEM to sort something out with her so that she could see my son. So, I texted her and told her that if she wanted to sort shit out, it would have to be with me and my partner, because he’s OUR son, not my parents’. And she texted back that she shouldn’t have to sort anything out - totally contradicting herself. So I replied that I couldn’t care less if she didn’t want to work things out - it was hurting her, not me. And now she’s blocked all of us, and gone and spread shit about my Mum. 😒
Achieve your health goals from period to parenting.