Hi,

I have been dating a guy who is 8 years older than me. I want a serious relationship with him but I am not sure what he wants. I don’t even know how to assess if he is being genuine and not just a trickster.

When I ask him about our relationship status whether it even exists, he just tells me that he doesn’t like to fit anything in one box. It’s driving me mad. I am young and beautiful and I don’t want to be with someone who just wants me to suck him.

Please help.