So my sister and I are twins and she has been quite absent in my life as she struggled with drugs for a while. Because of this she was not part of planning my bachelorette before I got married. My best friend took over and did everything for the bachelorette and my sister took a back seat.

Now that my sister is clean and excited to be an auntie she is organizing my baby shower but my best friend is not happy as she wanted to organize it.

The fighting has become so bad and I’m stuck in the middle.

I feel like my friend should back down and let my sister do it but I also want her to involve my friend so it can be a joint effort.

Just don’t want to deal with unhappy people on my baby shower.