Telling my SO‼️

Hello Guys! I just had a bit of a question and everyone’s opinion is welcome😊

On August 19th, I decided to take a pregnancy test even though my period wasn’t due until August 21st. Well I got a faint positive on 4 pregnancy tests and a BFP on a First Response.

On August 21st, Still no sign of AF. Which I figured, I decided to go too my local Health Department and get it confirmed... Well the nurse came in and said it was POSITIVE. I was so excited.

On August 22nd, I started cramping and didn’t think it was anything, Maybe just the beginning of pregnancy. I had to go too the bathroom and wiped and I saw blood. I didn’t freak out immediately because my cramping went again.

The morning of August 23rd, I woke up and I felt a little different. I felt soaked in my private area and on my bed. I rose up and looked down and I was sitting in blood, I had miscarried..

We tried this month and I’m suppose to be getting my period September 21st. So I guess my main question is, If I’m pregnant is it okay to not tell my partner til I have it officially confirmed by a ultrasound and of course by the doctor? He was super devastated when he found out I miscarried. I kinda want to surprise him and tell him.

Is it wrong of me to do that?

Thank you all! Sorry for a long post❣️