What do I do about my controlling roommate

Sorry it’s 1 am here for me so if there are any weird grammar mistakes I’m apologizing in advance.

So I just recently moved back to college and I live in campus. I technically live in a dorm but it’s apartment styled and I have my own room. I’m rooming with three other girls. One of these girls is a major bitch.

Right when summer started I started dating my friend. We’ve been excited to move back so we can hang out without having parents. But this roommate of mine makes me feel like I’m living with a parent. So for our college we have to make an online roommate agreement. And us four decided that you have to message the group if you want to have someone sleep over. Honestly, the two other roommates and I really don’t care if someone sleeps over cause it’s your room you can do what you want. It’s was basically made cause of this one roommate.

So one night I had him spend the night. I didn’t tell her that he was cause she had already gone to bed. And the reason why he spent the night cause I had a nightmare the night before that I was raped, I’ve been getting these dreams a lot lately, and I just didn’t want to sleep alone. So he spent the night then went home the next morning. But later that night we had a date night and we went stargazing. By the time we got back we were both exhausted. So I let him spend the night again without telling her. Keep in mind that I felt extremely bad that I didn’t tell her. So the next morning after the second night spent with me he left in the morning. My roommate left to go get breakfast and while she was gone I was trying to find a way to text an apology about the whole situation. In the end she got home and basically ended at me about the entire thing.

Moving on, I left this weekend to go to LA for a BTS concert and got back Sunday afternoon. That night we all decided to watch Hereditary. I ended up getting so freaked out that I almost started crying (I don’t do well with horror). And the entire time I was watching the movie I was snap chatting my boyfriend. He saw how scared I was and that I was scared to go to sleep. He said that he can come spend the night if I wanted him to, he just had to shower before coming over. I really wanted him to but I told him not to. I had just gotten back and I didn’t want to piss off that roommate by asking if he could spend the night. So I ended up going to bed with my all lights on cuddling a stuffed animal.

Now cause of her I don’t want to have him even hang out at my place anymore. I’d just rather go to his place or just not hang out with him in fear she’ll get pissed at me. We’ve only been back for three weeks and I don’t want to start shit. I nearly started crying tonight about the whole thing because my bff, also one of my roommates, and I were talking about the whole situation with my boyfriend’s roommates.

Is it wrong of me to just want my boyfriend by me in my own damn place?

The worst part is that she has a friend that spends the night all the damn time. I mean I’m also friends with this girl but like it not fair. Yeah she tells us that she’s spending the night but like it’s just not fair to me. It’s my room and this is also my place. Why am I having so much anxiety about my boyfriend coming over to my place.

I just want to cuddle with my boyfriend and just fall asleep with him by my side. Like we’re not even having sex!

Anyways, what do I do? Both my bff and I are annoyed by this. I nearly started crying in front of my boyfriend cause of this. I just don’t feel comfortable in my own home now. When she’s here I just want to lock myself in my room and never come out until she’s either gone or in her room. I need advice please. Help me.