How did it feel to consummate your marriage? Did you do it on your wedding night or during your honeymoon? How much sex did you have during your honeymoon?

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My husband and I were virgins when we married, and consummated on our wedding night (4 times, in about 14 hours)! It felt wonderful to display my complete trust in him, and give every bit of myself to him. There was no fear or embarrassment, and no pain (in our situation - I know it can be painful for others!) at all. While it took a few weeks for us to figure out how to get me to orgasm, I fully enjoyed every bit of every sexual encounter with my husband.
Celebrating our 1-yr anniversary, on 10/7!

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We didn’t on our wedding night bc I am an introvert and after the day we had I was done like dinner, lol. It was a learning process, since it was quite painful for me at first. But my husband was gentle and we took it slow and figured it out in the end. I discovered that I’m naturally quite dry, so lube helped a lot. It also helped immensely to know that we were both virgins on our wedding night and equally as ignorant and he wasn’t going to make fun of me or judge me. We learned it together and it has become something beautiful that we share.

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Neither my husband nor I were virgins when we met, but we had both made the decision to abstain from sex until marriage years before we met (after the previous mistakes were made) and kept that promise until our wedding night. I was nervous and expected things to be awkward, but it turned out to be not as awkward as I expected. We did consummate our marriage on our wedding night, and then 1-2 times each day while on our honeymoon. Once we got back to real life, things slowed down a bit. But overall, we are both so glad that we waited and honored God, each other, and ourselves by not being intimate until our wedding night.

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Unfortunately, neither of us were virgins when we got married, but we abstained in our relationship before getting married and it was pretty great, but got way better over time. 
My husband had some hang ups about letting go and not feeling “guilty” because that’s how he used to feel when he had sex outside of marriage.
I had baggage to deal with as well that I didn’t even realize was there and that sucked.
We also had to work through the natural family planning stuff and trusting God and His timing over our own.
Once I got pregnant sex got really good because we could both fully let go.

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We were not virgins, when we got married. We started dating at high school, and we were like light believers, dont know how to name it. We believed, but kind of obey the rules? So we slept together before, but stopped after some time, as my husband turned (I needed more time to turn) about 2 years before wedding. So, we were pretty looking forward to wedding night. And it was the worst... I was too tired. But it got better next day 😊

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Well we weren’t in the conventional sense on a honeymoon... I was a single mom and he lived at his job(on campus position req’d him to live here) we got married on a Wed n my living room lol on Friday we got a hotel room and our mutual friend kept my son.. we consummated Friday night /Sat morning and went back to regular schedules lol 
We now live together and consummate regularly lol hope that makes sense

How did it feel to consummate your marriage? Did you do it on your wedding night or during your honeymoon? How much sex did you have during your honeymoon?

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