Does he really consider this a relationship??

So I started going out with this guy and from the beginning he would act crazy. Like you would think he’s the girl and I’m the guy. I’m a chill person, I don’t look through the phone, I don’t accuse, I’m not the jealous type and I personally feel you can kinda tell if someone is or isn’t a cheater. So he’s continuously accusing of me cheating, he said I look like I’m a hoe. When he goes on his phone at night he covers himself. And before he try’s to give me his phone to look at he’ll try to be slick and I know he’s erasing stuff before he does. I don’t bother looking through it. He’s amazing when we’re together but when I’m home I have to be the one to message him and then he’ll start some crap up. I don’t really think he’s cheating but I do feel like he’s entertaining other girls through messaging and flirting with them. We live an hour apart from each other. Whenever someone messages me he’s all over my messages which I let him read because I’m not hiding anything. He says I’m the only girl he’s been like this with because he has a feeling that I’m with another person. When he leaves me hickys sometimes he’ll question some. I told him he’s just guilt tripping that’s why he feels like that. I know I shouldn’t bother with him anymore since I’m the only one getting hurt but there’s times I see that he really wants to be with me. But when he was messing with his phone while we were doing it, it was the biggest turn off ever. I told him to get off the phone. I don’t know how this is supposed to go because I’ve only known my daughters father and he wasn’t like this. We never questioned each other. So this guy is the second guy I ever been with. I feel so hurt. 😞 he never put that he was in a relationship on FB but would post a picture on Instagram of the food we eat on instagram and let’s it known he’s eating with his girl. The only time he’s mention anything of a relationship was when we broke up and he was just so “hurt” and broken hearted.