MOMS WITH TODDLERS

When baby #2 gets here our son will be 18 months old. I’m currently a stay at home mom/ full time student, but my family owns a daycare that he goes to occasionally (he hates daycare so I only take him when I have an appointment, a lot of errands, etc.) but my question is what are you doing with your toddler for the first few weeks your new baby is here? Are they staying home with you or going to daycare or is someone helping you with them? I’m so indecisive because I really don’t want to have to take him to daycare but I know taking care of them both by myself all day while I’m sleep deprived will be so hard especially since I’m going to breastfeed again and that takes up so much time. I wish paternity leave was a thing because that would solve all my problems...