My Parents Are Icing Me Out😕

Hi everyone I really don’t just post things so personal but I need to know if I’m crazy or in denial. So here’s my story over the past couple months summed up: I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years and it’s been really serious. Like once I finish college, we want to get married serious. Anyway, my family is extremely Christian which I have no problem with, but I feel like they are sort of using the Bible against me in a bit of a hypocritical way to make me feel bad for having sex with my boyfriend before marriage and wanting to move in with him(even though I’m an adult now). They think I shouldn’t even move out because I’m living in sin. But yet when I mentioned marrying him, they said I was too young and it wasn’t smart. Like I can’t win. My dad sat me down to talk to me and said I had to choose either to not allow my BF to come over at all anymore or to move out in 60 days. Keep in mind my Bf isn’t a bad influence. Never does drugs, doesn’t drink. He went to our church and the only thing he did was take my virginity after 7 months of dating. So I chose to just not allow him over anymore since I already don’t have him over because it’s uncomfortable. My dad and I were fighting and I was crying but he just wouldn’t listen to a word I was saying and that’s when my mom screamed at me that I had 60 days to leave anyways. My mom sent me some pretty shitty texts about saying how she won’t be blessing us because we basically don’t deserve it. All of that happened a few weeks ago. This really has affected me because I don’t understand how a parents love is so conditional when love is supposed to be unconditional. This has affected my Bf too because my mom used to love him. Recently my he tried to reach out to both my dad and mom at separate times in separate texts but my dad ignored him and my mom told him what she’s been telling me. So now neither of them are talking to me or him but they’re telling all of my family how horrible and disrespectful we’ve been because they’re upset about me having sex(even though my mom had premarital sex and got pregnant with me at 17 and my dad did too and has been divorced twice which I mention because those things are kinda negatives in religion). So I’m posting this because I need to know, is all this sort of normal and what I did really as horrible as they think and I deserve what’s happening because of it? Or are they out of line with everything?