So my husband doesn't want to know baby's sex until birth but I want to know immediately He suggested that I find out and he will wait. However, we have kids that want to know! Is this an impossible secret to keep for another 20 weeks after finding out???

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lol I think someone will slip up! either both of you know or both of you wait!

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If the kids know, the secret will come out 100%. But if it’s just you that knows, be super careful and don’t let it slip. You can do it

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My sister in law snd her hubs did this. She didn’t want to know but he did. He kept it a complete secret the entire time and didn’t slip up once!! Didn’t hint at a certain gender either. It can def be done!

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Same exact scenario for us.  I am the one that wanted to be surprised and he wanted to know the gender.  We compromised and were surprised with our first and will be finding out the gender of this one.  Personally feel like mama should get first pick!

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I would say the kids might slip up. He may also but he could easily cover it. If my husband knew I know he would pretend to slip up so even if he did I'd think he was messing with me. I might do the same to him 😂

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I know someone who didn’t want to find out. Because they have previous kids they didn’t do a baby shower. Only 2 people knew and it was moms best friends, they bought all the stuff for the baby while the mom picked it out and sent them pics! (She gave them her cc) it’s a really good idea!!

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That’s what we’re doing! I know and my family knows, but my husband and his mom are waiting until the birth. I’m a little nervous that someone will slip up, but we’ll see! People keep saying it’s not going to work, which has the effect of making my husband super determined to wait. It’s going to be so amazing to see the look on his face when the baby is born!

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My husband and I were the same way. He didn’t want to know because he wanted the surprise but I wanted to find out immediately. The only difference is this is our first kiddo. We came to a compromise and he agreed to do a surprise gender reveal. My friend is throwing it so we’ll be just as surprised as everyone else. That way I get to know and he gets the surprise like he wanted. I also feel if everyone knows but him somebody will eventually slip up and he’ll find out anyway

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We had the same situation with my first. It was easy for me to keep the secret, but the people I told messed it up, accidentally.

So my husband doesn't want to know baby's sex until birth but I want to know immediately He suggested that I find out and he will wait. However, we have kids that want to know! Is this an impossible secret to keep for another 20 weeks after finding out???

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