when to pack for hospital (longish post)


hey ladies this is my second baby and with my daughter i kept putting it off to get a bag packed so my husband ended up having to do so while i was at the hospital to bring us stuff ,so i am wondering when i should start packing and what to pack my son will be in the cicu and the nicu due to a heart defect that requires surgery within a week of birth so im just very confused on what to pack for him and for myself. please no rude comments im just trying to wrap my mind around everything and trying to be prepared this time i will be 27weeks tomorrow sep. 14th im due dec. 14th sorry for the long post