Staying in a hotel my ex and I stayed at?
My boyfriend and I have been together 2 years in October. To celebrate, we're planning a trip to Boston. There are many many hotels to choose from but there's one that I've stayed at before that's modern, upscale, and in the perfect location for a fantastic price.
The only catch is that my ex boyfriend and I stayed there a few years ago for our first anniversary. I don't miss him, I was the one who broke up with him actually, but something feels weird about potentially booking a stay somewhere with my current bf that my ex and I stayed at. I'm not concerned about "memories" or anything because in reality I probably shouldn't have dated him to begin with (constant liar, immature, needy ect) and I never think about him (unless something oddly specific like this comes up). He is a chapter in my book that I've sealed up and let go.
For some reason, it almost feels boarderline disrespectful to my current bf to bring him somewhere like that ya know? He wouldn't necessarily find out but I'd know. How would you feel if your SO & you stayed somewhere an ex and them stayed at? I'm probably reading too much into this and if so tell me to chill and book the damn place😂😂😂
Any advice/thoughts would be greatly appreciated.
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