Okay, so I broke up with my boyfriend, but hes also going through a lot right now, and I'm trying to help him through it. I broke up with him a week ago, and hes still trying to get back with me, and getting mad at me when I say no, like I want to be friends with him still, and I want to help him through his depression, but hes constantly trying to get back with me and asking me questions like do you miss me, do you miss cuddling me, do you still love me, etc. And today, he was going to come in for a couple hours with his friends, but they backed out and he never had a way in anymore. So I told him that's a good thing because I'm really tired anyway, I'm probably going to be asleep by 8.

He said he can come in and stay the night, I told him I'm not okay with that.

He said he was going to hop on his bike and come in for a few hours, I thought it was a joke. But I still got kinda sarcastic with me, making it obvious that I didnt want him to do that.

He lives an hour and a half away by driving. 7 hours by biking.

Hes actually biking in here, and I only found out when he was way more than half way. He wont be here until 9. And he has no way back out, unless he bikes. But obviously I'm not okay with him doing that in the middle of the night.

I dont know what to do. Should I just end ties completely with him? And what the hell do I do about tonight?