Am I broken? Why cant I let myself be loved?

Question

At a young age my uncle made me think that he loved me in inappropriate ways he did things that uncles are not supposed to do. And now that I am an adult I'm struggling really hard with it I've been through therapyand everything.  I feel gross like no one would want to have sex with me it's bothers me a lot and I'm having nightmares and I just want to know if there's something wrong with me or what cuz I hate this.

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If anyone dares to vote the first and last option, I hope you accidentally pressed it.

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It is NOT your fault at all! He is scum and should have never ever done that. You are a beautiful person and deserve to be loved, and love, to the fullest. 💕

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Maybe you should try getting More therapeutic help to rensure you that this isn't your fault & help you to overcome this! Your obviously still struggling with it, which is very normal, but it's time for you to finally be happy & comfortable with yourself! Wish you the best of luck dear!

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It's deffinitely not your fault, but i think that you should try and leave that in the past, give more time to yourself, meet new people and try something new, give somebody a chance, maybe that will help u move on.
Good luck to u darling 😘

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My uncle did the same thing and I went through a rough time. My heart was broken and it made me feel worthless. I thought sex was love because of it. Then I realized what happened to me cannot define who I am. It cannot define who can and cannot love me. It cannot define how I love myself. It wasn't my fault, I didn't ask for it. I learned to love myself, feature my feature. If you're religious, pray about it. And let the past go, it has nothing to do with your future. You are a strong woman, and you are loved and can be loved by many. I thought there was no hope for me and I was just a nasty human being, but I over came it, I pushed through it. And then I found the love of my life that makes me feel beautiful and wanted in every way. And here we are now, married and I could never love myself more! You have to realize you have so much self worth! You live ONCE! So enjoy it, look at yourself and point out of 1 thing you love yourself each day and let it be something different. Move up to 2 and then 3 and so on. You're beautiful, and you're strong. You've got them, babe! 😊

Am I broken? Why cant I let myself be loved?

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