So I had my first baby October 2017. A girl.

I’m due again December 2018 with another girl. I wasn’t going to have another shower cus baby 2 Can use all of baby 1s clothing and stuff.

But my mom keeps telling me I need to have. It won’t throw me one 🤔 I thought that if I did I could have one but just to get the essentials, like diapers, formula, nursery stuff etc. Clothing she can re use I saved it all and the toys I have still. So if I decide to throw myself a shower I’d hope I get stuff I want off my registry. But if I throw myself one I also think I could just use the money for the stuff I need. Thoughts? Does this post make sense? I am so tired haha so I apologize 🤣🙈