How do I end it?

Question

So there is this guy, he is very handsome and sweet. He knows how to treat a woman and most importantly he treats me like a Queen. I really like him. But I am still madly in love with my Ex boyfriend 😪 we broke up on terms that’s... fixable I guess you can say but I decided not too. As much as I really like my guy friend, I think about my ex a lot. It’s like I can’t stop thinking about him. I don’t want to keep stringing the new guy along while I’m still thinking about another man, I don’t feel that is fair because it will only hold him back and me. This was not suppose to happen. We were just enjoying each other’s time and now I have fell for him a bit and I still partially want to be with my ex even though we may not get back together, I think about him all day. Idk when I will be ready to be in Another relationship so I don’t want to string him along. Every time I talk to my guy friend, I get nervous and don’t know how to tell him. I NEED HELP!! I don’t want to end it with him in a bad notes because he is a great friend. So are there ways I can do it nice and easy?

Answer

Wait... So you really wanna lose a guy who knows how to treat a woman... Because of your bitch ass ex?

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I know that some people are saying that you should stay with the guy who treats you like a queen, however it is wrong to string someone along if you’re not fully invested in the relationship. I’m not saying that you should go get back with your ex, I’m just saying that I understand that your feelings for your ex are highly strong and it just doesn’t feel right being in another relationship with someone when they’re giving your all and your heart is kind of somewhere else. So maybe you should end it with the guy you’re seeing and kind of give yourself time to get over your ex, so you can start the next chapter in your life.

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He is your ex for a reason. That happened to me 5 years ago. Let me tell you my lil story. 
I was with a guy for about 5 months and while being with him a friend that I hadn’t met in person yet told me he really liked me. I told him I had a bf and we stayed as friends. At this point my friend and I have met once because another friend that was also his friend told us to hangout. We only hung out for like 20 minutes because I was supposed to see my ex that same day too. About 5 months later me and my ex broke up. He broke up with me so I still had feeling for him. My friend again told me he liked me and I told him I still had feeling for my ex because we would still text a lot and hangout once in a while. Fast forward 7 months and my friend and I finally hangout one on one. I then thought he was cute, but I still had feeling for my ex. We still kept hanging out and he just kept getting cuter and his shyness was cute as well. That’s when I decided to say, fuck my ex. If he wanted me he would’ve asked me to be his gf by now. So I gave my friend a chance and now we’ve been together for 5 years (:

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I think if you are considering wanting to try fix things with your ex you need to establish if HE wants to. I mean he may have moved on already.
But either way I think maybe it wouldn't be a bad thing to spend some time on your own and move on from your ex before getting into a relationship. The person you are actually seeing deserves your attention.

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