My husband doesn’t understand how I feel regarding TTC. He says we are not robots, but unfortunately we are in the position that we have to time our sex with my cycle etc, and I try to make it fun and playful so it doesn’t feel forced and he knew this week we agreed to try everyday, last night I dressed up and everything and he just didn’t want to do anything ... and when I expressed my hurt feelings this morning he totally flipped out and told me that’s the reason why he isn’t as excited and participating because I always blame everything on him. He doesn’t participate or initiate anything and feels like he just doesn’t care ... also he has a daughter from a previous relationship so he won’t EVER understand how I feel and long for a baby of my own.

Should I make an ultimatum? I don’t want to be married to someone that doesn’t want to fulfill my dreams of becoming a mother ... although I love him dearly.

I give up.

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PS: I’m 27, he is 37. Been TTC since May 2017. i have Endometriosis and POF. He has low sperm count. Next option is IFV but DH also doesn’t want to do that.