I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately. Especially the more I read the forums. I don’t want to upset anyone or step on any toes.

But..

To the ladies out there stressing over getting pregnant, I feel you. Been there. However, it’s not healthy. Your time will come! For some of you it’s a longer, harder road than the rest.

I just get so sad when I read women desperately asking if every little thing is a sign that they’re pregnant and then other women pump it into their head that only certain things mean they’re pregnant.

Tracking cm and cervix position is NOT reliable. No matter what anyone on here says, it’s not.

Yes, your cm generally follows a pattern through your cycle and IT IS a good way to know if you’re fertile, but less or more/texture/type does not always tell you if you’re pregnant. I’ve had my heart broken listening to women saying a lot definitely means you’re pregnant, and then I wasn’t. Cm amount can change for many different reasons. Cervix position can change several times throughout the day. Poking at it until it’s irritated isn’t healthy.

Pregnancy symptoms and pms symptoms are so similar that it’s not really worth stressing over. Just because one woman had a symptom doesn’t mean you’re not pregnant because you don’t have that symptom. Some women have none and go on to be pregnant and have happy healthy babies.

I’ll probably get attacked but all I’m saying is take a deep breath, relax as much as you can, stop worrying yourselves over clues. Wait until your period is due and take a test. No period still? Wait a few days and take another.

I love y’all and I’m praying for each and every one of y’all trying to conceive. I have faith it’ll happen.