I'm 19, never had sex and for a long time I've been thinking that I don't feel like a "woman"? If that makes any sense because I know I'm not trans because I enjoy being female and all that stuff but I don't feel like I'm non binary or whatever and I just don't know at this point

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I keep seeing comments telling me not worry about it but I am worried about it okay it does bother me people always see me as really aggressive and intense and I'm not looking for sympathy or anything