Shower Drama

So my family is spread out all over the country, so there is no way I can have a traditional shower. So my sister and I decided to do what’s called a long distance baby shower where anyone who wants to celebrate with us can mail there gifts to my house. My mom is not happy about this and wants to throw me a shower that is impossible to do. (This is also my first baby) So now my mom and my sister are arguing over everything and I’m stuck in the middle of it. I’ve become the middle man to try to smooth everything over, for my own shower! I’ve already had enough stress during this pregnancy and I wish they weren’t adding this on top of it. I honestly thought doing a shower like this would be easier on everyone and less stressful, but apparently I thought wrong. Starting to think not even doing a shower would have just been the way to go and got everything ourself. This is suppose to be a happy occasion but instead, it’s just stressful 😢

Update:

Just talked to my sister and she and my mom talked and got into a huge argument over this shower. Apparently my mom is now mad at me also about everything and actually told my sister that she doesn’t care if I’m pregnant or not, she doesn’t care the amount of stress she is putting on me. This just really pisses me off! I can’t believe she said that to her and that she doesn’t care that her own daughter who is carrying her only grandchild is stressed out, when she knows what I have already been through.