Mixed babies and I have racist parents.

Victoria

Has anyone experienced anything similar? So I am white but I grew up around Hispanics in my teenage years and learned Spanish. I am the only one in my family who knows Spanish. I married a dominican man in 2015. He really didnt know English when we first came to the US 2 1/2 years ago and now he knows a pretty good amount. We have a 2 year old son who we also speak to in Spanish. So my problem is whenever we are around my parents and are saying anything in Spanish they get irritated and say "English " but...in a demeaning tone. My son says agua for water, and they always yell "WATER" at him or me when that is said. It's very hard. My husband has gotten to the point where he doesnt even want to try to talk to my mom cause anytime he does she has this sarcastic ass response that is basically making fun of him for whatever he says. It's like they cant stand to hear Spanish! My husband speaks as well as he can in English when they are around though and still gets made fun of ...and it just pisses me off so bad. We really dislike being around them. My sons bday party is tomorrow and I'm just dreading them coming over already 😫😫

And I'm 22 weeks pregnant right now, just trying to not stress over this

Pic of us 💕

UPDATE: 9-24-18

First I just want to say omg thank you for all the support! I never though I would get this much love from this post! It truly means a lot to me and I've tried to reply to all the comments but I think it's easier if I just put a majority here...so today my baby is 2 ! And yesterday we had the party. More people showed up than I expected so it was great! My son had a blast. I didnt get a chance to actually sit down and talk to them but I was being very observant. They do try and talk with my husband and understand and respond, but yes ...the smart ass comments still happened. Not as bad though I guess cause there was so many people..but for example my husband told me something inSpanish, my dad said "easy for you to say haha" and my mom said "yeah lol" so...they are still joking about it. My dad has also post that as a comment on Facebook when my husband post something in spanish??? I dont see the point in it . But you are all right. I need to put my foot down. My husband and I talked about it today and he feels sad and hurt.😓 so I am definitely going to do something I just dont know what yet since I really generally avoid confrontation. I dont always have the most confidence in myself, but you guy have given me a lot of courage! Thank you. My mother in law got her visitors visa approved so she will be here for the birth of the baby girl and to help me , and thank God ..because she is an angle and idk if I would survive a 2 year old and a newborn alone 😂 sorry this is so long I just feel so connected to you guys!! And I was going to say another reason I havent completely cut them off yet is cause then I would literally have no family and that's just a little hard to accept. But it is like my husband said, I havent had family for a long time. I am just so blessed to have a wonderful man and beautiful children. They are all I need ..so I will do what needs to be done. Thank you again for all the love💕💕💕