So this isnt pregnancy related i just wanted to vent sort of.

So over the years in a marriage women are often seen as “ letting them selves go”. The husbands lose interest and many talk sext or have affairs with other women. They say they dont wash their hair. Wear makeup or even change clothes to even look nice...

Do you know the reason? Why we stop trying? Because you stop noticing we put in effort!

Doing our hair and makeup , hoping you notice and give us a compliment. Hoping our cute outfit makes you wanna jump us.

Hoping you appreciate how long it really takes to do this.

But you stop noticing. You stop complimenting. So we slowly stop doing it. First we stop shaving every other day. Then we let our brows grow back. We stop spending so much time contouring our faces and worrying about what eyeshadow to use.

We pile our hair into buns, and retreat to our comfy big shirts. Because why bother? Why would i keep doing this if it seems you dont even care?

So now you say to me, why dont you wear makeup? Why dont you put in an effort ?

Why would i when it goes unnoticed.

If you want your woman to keep herself up for you. Maybe you should show her you fucking appreciate it.