I’m too tall for heels☹️

Ok 5foot 8 or 5 foot 9. One or the other. Either way I’m tall as shit naturally so I never even bothered paying attention to heels. I feel like a look crazy with them on!!! I wear flats everywhere and I’m sick of it but I’m still so self conscious. Not to mention I’m single so finding a man is hard when you’re taller than all of them with heels on. I’m sometimes taller than them without heels!