It’s finally happening

I found out my baby’s heart stopped beating at almost 13 weeks. I’m scheduled for a D&C on the 5th but I started bleeding a couple days ago. Nothing crazy and no pains so I figured it would take some time. Iv also been sick with bronchitis and now my poor 9 year old has it and he’s coughing so hard he’s throwing up 😩. As I’m cleaning his throw up I start to feel cramps, I never have cramps during my periods so I can only assume that’s what these are. I can’t wait for my husband to come home from work in a few hours because I need him more than ever right now.