Anal scares the sh&*t outta me ....

So for my 33rd bday my beloved is setting up this whole bday trip for me. Now generally our sex life is rocking , we say

“no” to very little. However not that I’m saying “ nah” to anal it just hurts so much I’m jus like “ why we gotta do this?“ I want to give him this full wild sexual experience on vaca including a lil back door action but HELP A SISTER OUT ! What’s the best position , lubes ( I’ll admit we just using spit or my juices after he’s done eating my ass) , any help is appreciated!!!

Thanks ladies 🤷🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️😘

Ps he has t asked for it I just really wanna do this for him