Cheating or something else?
Soooooooo I have been pregnant all year!! Started out last year but we lost a set of twins in February. Well about 4 or 5 months ago a found out he had his next door neighbors phone number... A week before I found out he had her number we got into an argument, about why he was not kidding me when he came home, opening doors any more, ect., and he brought up an ex buddy of mine and mentioned condoms, which we haven't talked about since before our 5 yo was conceived. So fast forward to about a month ago, i was told by my best friend who had went to work with him in Arizona that firstly he told her we needed to stop being friends and secondly that he had no intention of ever marrying me and that he was only with me because of the kids! I'm currently pregnant AGAIN about 25 weeks now. Because he didn't trust me and who I would have the kids around! Which is crazy. So the past 2 weeks he has been saying that he is having long days which in his profession not unusual, he is a roofer, but he hasn't been coming in until about 830 or 9 some nights. Plus sat was I know 2 weeks since we had sex. I tried waking him a couple times in the past 2 weeks and the first time he woke up but was pretty much a dead fish... And the second time was just the other night and he pushed my hand away then covered himself with his hand. So I rolled over to go to sleep and he rolled over with me and put his hand by my lady parts, so I figured I'd try again just once more. So I used his hand to play with myself for a min and he moved it up and started rubbing under my belly button. After a few seconds he stopped doing that as well and I just tried to go to sleep. I said something about it on Sunday and he told me he didn't recall any of that. So last night when he came in he didn't try to kiss me hello and as I was laying down our 5yo he have her night love and she asked what about mommies night love? So he came back and kissed me goodnight and asked if I was sleeping there tonight, before I could say no, he was like well ok and said good night and he loved us. To me he just seems distant. I haven't actually say him down and asked yet but I figured I'd wait another week and see what happens. Id kinda like to see how long he will go without trying anything with me. He is also talking about having our 5yo sleep with us from this point forward because he thinks there maybe black mold in her room above her bed. Soooooooo what do you guys think?
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