My first time

At first I thought my "first time" I wasn’t bleeding but I felt different I guess. But then my second time I was bleeding. The guy that “took” my virginity started acting mad weird. He started saying yo you better not catch any feelings cuz all girls first time they end up getting attached. And Ik that I won’t end up getting attached like that’s not me 🤦🏽‍♀️. I’m really chillin with him and shit but what he said really stuck with me and I just don’t know what to do.