If your spouse couldn't cum during sex with you and could only cum by jacking off and he doesnt want to try things that may help and doesnt care that it bothers you and continues to do it. Would you be upset?

Shayna

I've had a ongoing issue with my man, I've posted on here to get opinions, I've googled things that may help, I've tried to talk to him and get him to open up ive tried to be sexy and attack him, he says it's not a porn addiction that hes just used to his hand, I dont think hes cheating so all of that is out of question and hes never been sexually assaulted or molested so idk what the issue is he just says that I need to get over it and that sex feels good and that's all that matters but to me its not. I'm sorry if I'm not making my man cum im gonna eventually feel like I'm not good enough or I'm not pleasing him and when I get upset and tell him how I feel it's a big blow out. Separating isn't a answer im trying to work through this. I have a very high sex drive he could go without sex and just jack off and be fine I need sex, masturbating just isn't the same so its causing alot of issues. Help! If he could cum during sex with me I wouldn't care if he jacked off I only have a issue cuz he can't cum during sex, oral etc. Only his hand 😭

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