Never had an orgasm. Someone help?

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Hi! New here to the community! But uh.  So,  a couple of months ago, I had sex for the first time ever. But, he was the wrong kinda guy to lose your virginity too. The experience....? HORRIBLE! He pulled out as soon as he popped the cherry and that was the end and we are no longer together.  Now, I've never masterbated before because it makes me uncomfortable. My current boyfriend knows I'm not a virgin and when I told him I've never had an orgasm, he was surprised. We're waiting to have sex when we're ready because he's a virgin. So can someone please tell me what to expect when I have my first orgasm? Before,during, and after? Or at least, your experience?

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Buy a vibrator and see how it goes ! If you don't give your self orgasm and know what feels right then your partner will never know what you like especially if he hasn't done the deed before .

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Thanks so much you guys that have commented so far on my problem. It was a big help! Really made me see what I need to do. Thank you for the advice so far guys!

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Unfortunately generally the men in our world usually have no idea how to give a girl an orgasm, they don't understand that they have to do so much more than litterally pounding into you. My advice? Do it on your own first, the very first time (and only way) I've ever had a big O was on my own. No guy I've ever been with has even been able to give me an orgasm , for some of us girls it's a lot harder to achieve. And my advice for when you go to try to do it yourself, remember, it's all about the clit lol

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You will know that your having an orgasm when you do. It's the best feeling ever.

Never had an orgasm. Someone help?

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