TTC Revelation! 💡

Ash • Happily married and blessed to have welcomed our TWIN BOYS via IVF a year ago in March of 2017! 💛🔬🍍👶🏼👶🏼
Ladies, I've decided to quit TTC. Here me out first before you start going crazy! I think personally I've put too much stress and emphasis on having a baby. I've lost myself and the relationship with my husband during this journey. I thought it would be fun and easy, but as we all know, that's not the case. I'm going to start doing things for ME! I'm tired of not doing certain things because I'm TTC. "Oh I can't workout because I might have a miscarriage", "I can't drink alcohol or caffeine because I might hurt my chances", or "We NEED to have sex tonight because I'm ovulating!" Any of these sound familiar? Then when AF arrives, I cry cry cry and complain to my husband that all our hardwork this month didn't pay off. And the viscous cycle starts again! 
This is what I'm gonna do.....I'm gonna start working out again, having more fun and meaningful sex with my husband when HE wants to and stop obsessing about having a baby. I'll still be on Glow to chat and track to see where I am in my cycle. 
Sounds kinda crazy huh? I need to shake things up since our approach for the past 6 cycles hasn't worked. Plus, I want my hubby to enjoy sex again and be the man. Right now, I'm the man demanding sex all the damn time. Lol 
Fingers crossed for you ladies this month and baby dust! 😘🙏💆🍷
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Ra

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I love our little group! I really feel like we are all at the same point of where we need to not try so much and focus on enjoying our DHs and doing what we want while we want!  I know we will all get our BFPs SOON and be amazing mommies! 

As

Ash • Aug 6, 2015
I hope so Rachn

Ta

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We are doing the " not not trying" and when it happens it happens. 

As

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I think that's a great idea!! I think when you're not trying (all of you) it'll happen! It should be about fun and love and not feel like a job! I can't wait for you girls to join me and I know it will happen soon!!I love our group but sorry don't love the random people on here haha let's blame it on my hormones! I see a random post from someone who has never commented before and then they never comment again! So my original ladies you know who you are I love you girls and won't leave this page until we can all leave together ❤️

As

Ashley • Aug 6, 2015
Hahaha ok girls we obv need a new page! I'll get on that because ummm why?! Lol

Ra

Rachel • Aug 6, 2015
I thought it was just me that was totally annoyed by the randomness haha 😉 it's like woah... Who are you....? LoL

Sa

Sara • Aug 6, 2015
Haha I agree!

Sa

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I am right there with you!!! If we have no luck this cycle I am going to do exactly what you are doing. I was able to get my husband in the mood and take charge so we did end up bding tonight. He knows whenever I initiate sex it's only because we are trying. I said I was going to take this current cycle "off" and not try but I couldn't resist. Next cycle I am definitely taking a break. I know you will get your bfp soon and I always hear when you stop trying it happens. You are an amazing woman and you will be a mommy very soon, I know it! I am just so happy to have you ladies to talk to!

Sa

Sara • Aug 6, 2015
Thank you so much!

As

Ash • Aug 6, 2015
You're an amazing, driven and caring woman! I know you're going to get your BFP soon! It's going to happen before the year ends! I know you'll be the best mommy ever to your little one someday!

Sa

Sara • Aug 6, 2015
You are going to have such a stress free cycle and I think it's just what you need. Have fun and enjoy your hubby