Bet with my husband

Ok ladies... I am needing a little help. So starting on November 1st we have made a bet. Neither of us will be allowed to smoke or drink. The first one to crack will be the loser. My husband wants to take me to a golf tournament, which will be torcher to me. Therefore I am reaching out to y’all to help me pick something. I want to go see the Nutcracker live with real people, but he wants to do that. So I am having a hard time figuring out what I want. Any suggestions would help me put a lot!