22 weeks and just a small bump

Hi ladies, this is my 1st live birth and we are extremely excited. I am plus size so I knew it would take a little longer for me to "pop" but I am 22 weeks and i still feel like a just look normal. I guess my problem is I feel a little sad when people say wow you cant even tell your pregnant or are you even pregnant? People would think this would be a compliment but it really isn't. Not in my case. I had a MC last December and it of course still hurt very much. So for people to make these comment hurts me. I see a bump but others dont and I cant help but want to cry. Has anyone felt this way plus size or not? Please help me on how to not let this get to me. All in all we are having a beautiful baby boy 💙 👶 who is so wiggly and growing wonderfully, that we cant wait to make his presence Feb 2019