I know people aren’t required to attend your parties but seriously. I had all of my family rsvp and none of them showed up. I checked the day before and the morning of. They said they’d be there and out of 30 of them only 3 showed up. My baby shower was 30 Min swag from the town that we all live in. That was a week ago. I found out this weekend most of them plan go drive 11 hours back to our home state to go to my cousins EX (from 7 years ago) girlfriends baby shower. It honestly just hurts. Even though my in laws are the ones that threw our shower it was embarrassing having none of my family there after my in laws bought enough food and stuff for them