Should I go?

So my boyfriend is supposed to move in with me and my parents because I don't have a house yet. But just today my mom was screaming at me saying pack up and go and I told her if I go I'm going to live with my boyfriend who's a couple states away. I've had problems with my family my entire life. And I hate being here when they fight they bring me into it all the time. When I was 16 this happened and I did leave but I came back 4 years later. Anyways. I don't know what to do honestly today has been horrible. So my question is should I move with him? If so how should I tell my parents I'm going? No negative comments thank you.