TTC is getting extremely hard and stressful

So my Husband and I just got married 5 months ago and have been TTC for a while now but we currently live with my mother because we’re getting ready to purchase our first home in next couple months but TTC have have been so hard for us lately all of our friends have babies and he’s 28 and I’m 24 so we want to make it happens before we get older and all the advice I’ve been getting are “ stop stressing “ “don’t worry “ It will happen when the time is right “ I’m so tired of getting that same advice over again. I was the daughter that ever mother wish to have , I finished college got a degree, I lost my virginity to my husband we moved together the moment we got engaged and waited to get married before having children and now I want them and it’s happening for us and sometimes I just feel like Why does this have to happen to me.